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A common myth that is said recurrently
that compatibility between partners makes the life easier. But the reality
according to psychological research is different which explicitly dictates that
absolute similarities are not compelling to retain relationship but the other
way around. Striking differences create contingency to save relationship from
decadence. It saves relationship from boredom. Beauty of differences are
beautiful until compulsion to impose one’s opinion is essential. Usually the
like- mindedness is encouraged instead of binding two opposite people because
differences creates complexities more than tranquility.
But a healthy relation requires fine
mixture of similarities and differences with the quality of coping with each
other in the best possible manners by giving each other due respect for
difference of opinions. Respect for the difference of opinion.
You have the right to disagree but in
agreeable manners
Disagreeing
is nit but disagreeing in disagreeing manner is wrong. If he/ she pose and
opinion with you, you must reject it if you differ with it but ensure that your
way of rejecting must not hurt your partner. This way you both can stay
adhering to each other without marginalizing each other's tendencies.
Appreciate similarities as well as
differences
Typical
personalities go to find sameness while adventurous and thrilling personalities
relinquish such drudgery. Ease in every walk of life is considered laudable but
if you find some incompatible characteristics in him/her then you should
appreciate it. It’s not necessary that you always seek consistent qualities in
him/her with you.
Every human being is different, accept the
fact
Life
is beautiful with the fact that everyone is different. Colors of life are the
product of variant nature of men. When wife or husband have the unnatural
demand from each other that they should be in consistent to each other first to
establish relationship. But they end up heart broken.
Accept being wrong
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